"Shared" Nonsense

I love how a one point conversation turns into bullshit and the comment "I'm gonna do what I want to do in my house" appears to be the only response that you can give. I have NEVER underestimated the fact my kids have the best care when they are at their Aunt T's and Grandmothers house. In fact she has been the best FATHER to my kids thus far. All I said is that Your kids would like to spend time with just you and I gotta hear a "family speech." Give me a fuckin break! I know all to well about FAMILY because I've been doing the entire family thing for several years now. Tell me how many music recitals, basketball games, gymnastics meets, student council meetings, parent teacher meetings that you have attended? Then tell me how many times you have helped with homework assignments, after school projects and do you even fucking know where she goes to school?! When my baby is sick and she comes over who nurses her back to health, not you.. her Aunt does! When my kids are there period who tends to them and their needs...Their Aunt and she doesn't have to but she understands the situation! And I do understand that she has taken them on vacations that she didn't have to and I APPRECIATE her for it and YOU were not there so don't talk to me about it! So I don't even know why the fuck that was brought up in the first place. I know who's taking care of my kids when they are away from me and it puts my heart at ease. I know that this summer and every summer previously has gone good without a hitch because of T. I love and appreciate them for all that they have done for my kids!

Now let's get to the real fucking fact! Do not bullshit with my kids and give them excuses they don't deserve that. They deserve the opportunity to spent time with just you like they spend time with just me. We have days just us girls and we have a great time! All i'm saying is that you have a nephew that sees you EVERYDAY!!! So, why is there an excuse to them when they ask to go somewhere with just you? This is like fucking Déjà vu. Just like back then I'm going to do what's best for my girls and what makes them happen (within reason). Time does not cost money!

Wake the fuck up fathers! What is it gonna take for you to get it thru your heads that not just anyone wants to be with you and round you....not just anyone...your children. At what point do you realize that as today is not promised to anyone you would deny your child the most precious thing that you can offer...TIME! Get this, you don't have to "save" up for it at all. All you have to do is agree to it. But the fucked up part is that instead of agreeing with it you made an excuse. EXCUSE- A reason or explanation put forward to defend or justify a fault or offense. Yep, that's sounds about right! What happened to ac·count·abil·i·ty ( I enunciated so you and others could understand), ACCOUNTABILITY! Hey, that's a word to keep in your mental dictionary at all times. Accountability- an obligation or willingness to accept responsibility. Just like the last time. I think that this is again Déjà vu. My obligation as a parent is to protect. Protect them from hurt and harm. I am hands on with them at all times. Someone fucking with my kids will get an ass-kicking on a level of 1-5 and I have never given anything under a 5 to ANYONE when it comes to them! I'm relaying messages that they feel uncomfortable relaying themselves and now I understand why....because when the conversation is over they are not allowed to use the word BULLSHIT!