I wasn't born a bitch; men like you made me that way

Getting phone calls because OMG this fuckin fool broke up with me! Did he not realize that I was the best thing that happened to his sorry ass? Did he not know that I've been putting my life on hold to raise this family to its disfuctionality that it is today? Did that damn man know that when he was out with his boys or working late(or at least that's what he told me) that I was dealing with a sick child with a 103 degree temperature. HELL NO! All he knew was that I wouldn't dare say how I really felt. When he'd return home, I'd act like I was sleep until I accidently did fall asleep.

Getting text messages because this stupid guy has been playing all these games with me. He tells me that he wants to be with me one minute but then his phone rings and it is quickly silenced. WTF! What do you mean that you can't stay tonight? And why can't we go to the movies over on 8th & Main? Oh, cuz "who" might see us? So, we end up going to Kentucky so no one would recognize you and I still get what I want.

Getting e-mailed because damnit this man is really not appreciating me. I've been up all night, up all day, trying to figure out why everytime you come home you're so fuckin tired. What the hell did you do today to get yourself so tired that you can't take me out to dinner just once a week. Did I really ask too much this time. Maybe I should be considerate of what kind of day that he was having and leave him alone.

Getting damn Facebooked because somebody on my friends list told my man that they saw me at some club with someone else. REALLY WTF!!! What are you bitches? Government spies to go runtelldat so you can get my man?! Didn't I see you at that same damn club with your male neighbor that be at your house when your husband is away on business. Was that the same BMW that parks around the corner about 2 blocks away from the house when you supposedly "go for a run" Right!!!

Yea I got Myspaced messaged today from some man asking me if I drive, do I have my own place, how many kids do I have so of course the typical 'Nattie' answer would be: Hell yea I drive! But I aint coming to pick you and your friends up to take you nowhere. You aint coming to my damn house and don't ask me questions about my family! Who the fuck are you!!!

Now LADIES, I'm gonna need ya'll to be betta! You are worth it. I dont care what that chick said or your dude said or even that triflin ass family member that is just hatin on you cuz you got ya mind right. I, SinSiNattie, is telling you to look forward. Not sideways, not backwards. Listen to me. You are a WOMAN! Repeat after me. "I AM A WOMAN AND YOU WILL RESPECT ME!" LADIES, demand that shit so these fools quit trippin.

I'm tired of the phone calls, text messages, e-mails, facebook status', and the damn myspace. Why ya'll still on myspace anyway. Aint you grown yet! Okay we still repeating the sentance "I AM A WOMAN AND YOU WILL RESPECT ME!" Quit acting like you dont have a voice to speak your mind. And if that damn man keeps threatening to leave you and your household...Look that ________(cuz I gotta lot of words to fill in that blank) in the face and tell him to get the hell on! You dont need this, you dont need him. I'm gonna need all ya'll to acknowledge your self-worth and then keep saying "I AM A WOMAN AND YOU WILL RESPECT ME!"

DO NOT..AND I REPEAT...DO NOT, be like Jazmine Sullivan and Bust tha windows out his car...lol! I need you to just tell him that like Alicia Keys says Still "when I'm a mess, I still put on a vest, With an S on my chest, Oh yes, I'm a Superwoman.. Believe that shit when you say it! Oprah Winfrey said "As you become more clear about who you really are, you’ll be better able to decide what is best for you - the first time around."

This time we are gonna say it together: "I AM A WOMAN AND YOU WILL RESPECT ME!" and if you ever feel like you are not strong enough to say it...Let me do it for you.