A Thin Line....

Wednesday, June 30, 2010


{Singin}
The sweetest woman in the world
Could be the meanest woman in the world
If you make her that way!!


You keep on hurting her
She'll keep being quiet
She might be holding something inside
That'll really hurt you one day



C'mon Madea tell it like it is!
Myrtle: "Peace be still." That's what he said.
Madea: Well, peace always comes with still...
[takes out gun]
Madea: 'cause I keeps me a piece o' steel.

I know your man or woman been out "tippin" and shit they had to make it drizzle cause they couldnt make it rain...smdh! Really what's tha damn point. All I'm sayin is I'm tired of the stupid cheater! Ok now if there is a receipt in the bag wit all your other shit on it it's yours right? So why you wanna lie when I question you about the 2 (not 1) boxes of condoms that you bought! I know that shit wasn't left in my damn drawer! Again...this is where Madea would have took out her damn gun!

What you say Madea? Madea: I knew a woman who was married to a man for 38 years, she
cheated on him for 42 years, and he died thinking he was the only one. Again smdh!

"Love is a word that is constantly heard,
Hate is a word that is not.
Love, I am told, is more precious than gold.
Love, I have read, is hot.
But Hate is the verb that to me is superb,
And Love but a drug on the mart.
Any kiddie in school can Love like a fool,
But Hating, my boy, is an Art"
--Patrick Byrne, owner, Overstock.com

"Women rule the world. It's not really worth fighting because they know what they're doing. Ask Napoleon. Ask Adam. Ask Richard Burton or Richie Sambora. Many a man has crumbled"
--Jon Bon Jovi


"Women might be able to fake orgasms, but men can fake whole relationships".
--Sharon Stone

"A good man doesn't just happen. They have to be created by us women. A guy is a lump, like a doughnut. So first you gotta get rid of all the stuff his mom did to him. And then you gotta get rid of all that macho crap they pick up from beer commercials. And then there's my personal favorite...the male ego."
--Roseanne Barr

"I'm such a good lover because I practice a lot on my own."
--Woody Allen

OOh Buddy, I wish a ninja would cheat on me...Like Madea would say "I'll be the first ghost in history to do a drive by"....

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Nabisco...WTF Did You Do To My Nutter Butter Cookie!!!

Monday, June 28, 2010






Why did they change the shape of the nutter butter cookie? I hate the round ones, not that they taste any different but i'm just sayin!

After about 2 hours had gone by...So I'm still upset about this whole Nutter Butter thing. The price didn't go down just cuz they shrank my cookie to look like a Girl Scout peanut butter cookie. I DONT WANT THAT! I want the old cookie back...ya know tha one shaped like the planter peanut. For some reason, I'm thinkin that they are gonna say that this is Obama's fault too!

Before








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Improvision

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Respect....The Boomerang Effect

Sunday, June 27, 2010



First lets try to narrow down the definitions of respect as I know it. This is my personal opinion and you are entitled to yours.

Respect means a lot of different things. On a practical level it seems to include taking someone's feelings, needs, thoughts, ideas, wishes and preferences into consideration. We might also say it means taking all of these seriously and giving them worth and value. In fact, giving someone respect seems similar to valuing them and their thoughts, feelings, etc. It also seems to include acknowledging them, listening to them, being truthful with them, and accepting their individuality and idiosyncrasies.

Respect can be shown through behavior and it can also be felt. We can act in ways which are considered respectful, yet we can also feel respect for someone and feel respected by someone. Because it is possible to act in ways that do not reflect how we really feel, the feeling of respect is more important than the behavior without the feeling. When the feeling is there, the behavior will naturally follow.

Still, there is a value to respect which money can't buy. Though someone's life might not depend on it, there are times, many times in fact, when another person has the chance to make a personal decision - a judgment call. When that person feels sincere respect for someone else, they will make a different decision than if they feel no respect, even if they have customarily shown a false, pseudo-respect to the person.

We can all sense whether we are respected or not. This holds true for those with money and power as well. Moreover, it is quite possible that those who pursue money and power are actually trying to gain a type of respect that they never have truly felt.

When we are respected we gain the voluntary cooperation of people. We don't have to use as much of our energy and resources trying to get our needs met. When people respect one another there are fewer conflicts. So, it is for both evolutionary and practical reasons that respect is important, and also why we simply feel better when we are respected. And when we are not...all hell tends to break loose...lol! Oops that's a personal reflection.

Respect seems to be like a boomerang in the sense that you must send it out before it will come back to you. Respect cannot be demanded or forced, though sometimes people mistakenly believe that it can.

Respect in a relationship means that each person values who the other one is, understands and would never challenge the other person’s boundaries. Love and respect should always exist together. When you love somebody, you try to bring only good things to them. When you respect somebody, you acknowledge the right of the person to decide about what is actually good for them. Combining both feelings together you may help your partner to fulfill his/her choice (in case it doesn’t contradict any of your own principles and then it can be a voluntary sacrifice on behalf of love). But it is terrible if the first exists without the second.

Sometimes we are missing in our relationships listening in non-judgmental manners and an attempts to understand and affirm other’s emotions. If my self-respect is higher than yours it could easily lead to controlling and dominating behavior. Boundaries of self-respect are connected with a set of values and beliefs in one’s life rather than feelings. When someone loves you, you feel valued, respected and free to be yourself. You are not meant to be feeling intimidated or controlled. Someone who loves you should help you to feel good about yourself. This is respect in a relationship which is the main key to a healthy, successful relationship.

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Top 10 Reasons not to Date a Black Woman....

Tuesday, June 22, 2010




So one of my FB friends posted this from a discussion within a chat window on Black Planet. I'm really bothered by some of this! I'm bringing this to the roundtable for discussion. What do you think about this post. Are these black men attracting the wrong females? I wanna hear from you. Break this shit down for me..being a black female I want to understand before I go for the Jugular!


Top 10 Reasons not to Date a Black Woman

1. Black women make black men feel under appreciated, unwarranted and irresponsible and regressive.

2. Black women are too aggressive and no longer patient in waiting on the pursuit of a man.

3. Black women are strong headed, too independent which presents great challenges in relationships.

4. Black women are masculine in that they are controlling and like to run the relationship.

5. Black women expect too much. They are gold diggers who will not look twice at a blue collar black man.

6. Black women are hot headed and have bad attitudes.

7. Black women stop caring about their appearance after a certain age.

8. Black women are not as sexually open as other races, especially in regards to oral sex.

9. Black women’s tolerance is far too low; they are no longer empathetic to the black man’s struggle in White America.

10. Black women do not cater to their men.

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Funny How...

Monday, June 14, 2010


So in all my efforts to be that perfect woman and deal with all of the most ridiculous shit I've ever encountered the only things that are coming to mind between all the fuckin cuss words are "Funny How"...



"Funny How" "shit can't change over night" but you are making no effort to do anything about it.

"Funny How" You can live with your baby momma and I'm expected to just deal with tha shit cuz it's "not like that"

"Funny How" You get all pissy when I go outta town cuz your scared that I might do some shit.--- Do you know who tha fuck I am? I dont cheat! I dont venture, I dont sway. Are you paranoid cuz that's what you're doing.

"Funny How" You listen to all them "no workin, no havin a woman, no car havin, no job havin punk asses" that you be around to help you figure out shit but cant keep their own shit together. Really, what tha fuck can they say to help you?!?!

"Funny How" You're so cool with your famo contactin me tryin to get at me that you're not MAN ENOUGH to check that shit at tha door. But that's cool, I handled that!

"Funny How" You think that every man is out to "get your girl".. well have you seen me... Fool they are!

"Funny How" I dress up and you have a fuckin fit cuz "Damn, I'm fine" and you know this....MAN!

"Funny How" Its storming right now and you are no where to be found. Oh, I forgot you are at home! what tha fuck was i thinking!

"Funny How" I'm always at home and you are always doin whatever it is that you do.

"Funny How" I call you and you dont answer, but expect me to wait by the damn phone for your calls. And I better answer cuz to you I might be fuck*in some dude. But you trust me...wow really. That's what that's called... oooohhhh!

"Funny How" I want a girlfriend to have someone be here with me, But you want to control that too! wtf! Take care of your own shit! I got this! So let me get this straight, you dont want her here when you're not but really what is the damn point...ugh!

"Funny How" Females like us accept you for who you are but you dont accept us for the women that we are... Considering all the shit you put us thru.

"Funny How" everybody is up tonight on Facebook cuz of this damn storm. But no one is here to keep me safe... go figure!

"Funny How" There is always someone there to call and check up on you when you are nowhere to be found... no matter how much of a bitch you was to that person, they still care. But your stuck "Lovin Foolishness". C'mon God quit messin wit me like this. I know now, be specific in your prayers. Just not any "good man" be damn SPECIFIC!

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Stranger In My House...

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Karen White sang this song and it's really hitting home to us ladies. When she said that "We don't talk the way we used to talk, It's hurtin' so deep, I've got my pride, I will not cry, But it's makin' me weak. I'M NOT YOUR SUPERWOMAN! I'm not the kind of girl that you can let down, And think that everything's okay.. Boy, I am only human. This girl needs more than occasional Hugs as a token of love from you to me...

We want to hear your voices telling us that you understand where we are coming from. Look at us damnit when we are speaking to you. And I swear if I see you stare off into space imma smack tha shit outta you! All we want is for you to look at us and SEE us. Not look past us or glance at us. We want you to let us know that you do care. I swear there has got to be a book on this by now. I purchased a book back in Indiana on a visit just because it was super cheap at the bookstore at the library called The 7 Stages of Marriage. Trust me when I say that you don't have to be married to relate to this book. I have this on hand and let me know if you would like me to put it in rotation for you to see...lol!

It's clear that we don't see eye to eye. Us women are more passionate. Guys you think that if we stress to you how we feel that we are nagging. Well you know what, naggin is only effective if you are here! I cant nag over the damn phone and I dare your ass to hang up on me. Look we get that you work and want to better yourself but how hard is it for you to notice me. You'd be surprised how a little would just go a long way. Writes me a freakin note on a napkin and leave it somewhere you know that I'd look. Get your damn notebooks ready! We are in this relationship WITH you. You don't do shit by yourself no matter what you think or say. We know the truth. We find the shoes, shirts, jeans, bill that are right in front of your face. We tell you when the bills are due and what to pay. Do you even know how to check the mail?

Can you do this on your own? Is this what you want? Why are we together at this point if you are not willing to help make this shit work. It is two sided or not. We don't want to have it all. We want to make a joint decision. Do you even care that we don't see you for days? I can't sleep with the greatest silence in my home. I stay awake all night with hopes of hearing from you. When you come around I can fall asleep in .2 seconds! wtf...what is it about you. We are frustrated because we need to know "how to love you" where it doesn't hurt us in the process. Are we doing something wrong? Do we care too much? All we want is to be noticed by you. For you to listen and embrace our feelings. Let us know that you care and walk a day in our shoes . And I'm not talking about Usher's "Changes places" video. I mean ask us what we want and you fulfill that. Take the kids where they need to go, schedule crap to be fixed, hold down your job, keep yourself together in school and all while maintaining your sanity like we try to do! And we do a pretty good job in tryin to let shit roll off our back but it's starting to sting a little. Let us know that you care. “The first woman was created from the rib of a man. She was not made from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled on by him, but out of his side to be equal to him.”

This is our demands....just to start with...
Return our damn calls
Kiss me for no reason
Dress up for me- yes fellas, no sweats allowed!
Remember my Birthday, anniversary,
Let's do something together that we both have never done before.
DATE ME!!! Act like the same damn man I met before YOU got comfortable.
Hold me
Talk to me...and not about music, sports, school. None of that shit!
Lay with me
LISTEN TO ME!!!
LISTEN TO ME!!!
LISTEN TO ME!!!
LISTEN TO ME!!!
LISTEN TO ME!!!
ATTEMPT TO UNDERSTAND WHY I look at you with such disgust.

When I ask you why you love me DO NOT say "cuz i do" give me the real reason because us females are very specific.

After you read this... Tell your woman why you love her...and why you appreciate her. Remember that we see thru bullshit so please keep it together.

Listen to both of these... We are getting fed up!

"Stranger in my house"

"When A Woman"


OKAY... NOW FELLA'S WHAT DOES THIS POST MEAN TO YOU. DO YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR LADY? HAS THERE BEEN A POINT WHERE YOU HAVEN'T AND WISHED YOU DID... LET'S HEAR IT. COMMENT BELOW...

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I've got so much to say after leaving this city and seeing yet another experience of great people that I just need to take it all in for a while. Look for my post of the Florida experience soon. And I am working on the blog that I solicited your input on. Be patient with me. Everyone submitted great responses. Just need to put it all together.

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I'm Bringin Sexy Back!!!

Wednesday, June 2, 2010




It's been a long road and I simply owe my weight loss to a couple of people. I aint gonna call ya'll out but you know who you are. If it wasn't for you stressing me the hell out, i dont know that I would have been this successful. I'd like to thank that avatar on my Wii Active, I know I always shout back at you when you tell me that I need to pick up the pace but my typical response would be "bitch im tryin"...lol.

Up and down, story of my life. I just want some consistancy at anytime. I love my new look (-30 lbs) and lets see what else we can do! Imma be like Rickey Ross and "Push it (to tha limit)" Aint got nothin to lose (nah) I'm just supporting my family. Stress is the best weight loss and although I dont support you having stress in your life you gotta make it do what it do.

I'm tryin to be ready for this summer to come and my life to attempt to start over. Robin thicke is gonna give me some "sex therapy" but only 2 times a week. But when he do I just can't keep my boo Luda outta my head tryin to "welcome me to his sex room" Ya'll he told me to "power down your cell phone and power up your iPod" Damnit Luda, you know I gotta a Zune... Bill Gates Baby!!

Damn is that my cell phone ringin? "Hello, wassup? yea....yea. Calm down baby...slow down, i cant hear you. Aww..yea I know "Emotions make you cry sometimes,... emotions make you sad sometimes,... Emotions make you glad sometimes, but most of all they make you fall in love." So don't fight tha feeling baby, just let it happen...lol!

I'm so tired of the bull in my life right now that I can just scream! But instead....Drop that beat!

'Cause Imma be shakin' my hips
You gon' be lickin' your lips

Imma be takin them pics, lookin' all fly and shit
Imma be the flyest chick, so fly
Imma be spreadin' my wings
Imma be doin' my thang, do it, do it, okay

Imma, Imma swing it this way
Imma, Imma, Imma, Imma swing it that way
This is SinSiNattie and Imma, Imma be here to say
The 21st century until infinity!

My bad ya'll, I'm just sayin...lol!

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