Making Love or Just Having Sex...
Friday, March 26, 2010
Eddie Murphy was once quoted as saying that there is no difference between the act of lovemaking and the act of sex. Seriously...Do people really think that this is the same thing? Well, I dont think so. I believe that they are both two different actions that are separated by emotion. hmmm...let me think about this some more...
What's your take...
2 comments:
didn't eddie murphy get busted with a trannie in his car? and didn't he say he was just giving it a "ride"? i'm just saying, i wonder if he would have said he was planning on making love to that tranny? he could call it semantics if he wanted to but i guarantee if he had copped to it he would have been like, "it was just sex, heh heh heh." (i can't write how he laughs)
i can't speak for every guy, i can't really speak for any guy except for me and i think there is a huge difference between having sex and making love. i feel like if i use the term "having sex" all it means is the definition of intercourse, penis in vagina, with no regards for my partner's feelings or pleasure. it's an emotionless act. get in, bust and get out. and i've never cared to have that mindset. "making love" to a woman is as much about the emotional side of sex as it is the physical. it's about the connection you achieve when you're giving all of yourself to her and allowing her to give herself to you. it's an expression of the love you have for her, it's one way to let her know how much you desire her and how much you want her. and personally i feel that having sex without having any feelings for the other person isn't worth it. if i'm gonna be totally vulnerable in a state of intimacy, i know i'd rather be with somebody i can share the experience with. both physically and emotionally.
After years of trying to figure that question out i finally found the answer, for a long time i couldnt see any difference in having sex and making love, it was all the same routine shit. I couldnt care less for the love thing in sex because in all honesty love just wasnt there for me, im not saying i have not loved because i have, i just wasnt fully commited in that love didnt trust it or was just plain scared of it. Then finally one day i met this man who has captured the very essence of my love, and i finally got it, loving someone and being in love are so very different in the sex game, because when you truly love someone and commit to them all the sex in the world is nothing compared to the sexual feeling of making love and actually feeling it. It is the most awesome feeling i have ever experienced to make love to someone that i no without a doubt that i am commited to and my body is for him and him only, the things you feel comfortable doing for each other and too each other hmmm o so wonderful. So yes peeps there is truly a difference between sex and making love... and that difference is in your heart when you finally get it.....
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